Blessing those who curse us

For several years, I felt hatred towards my husband and his second wife for a lot of harm they had done to me. I went to church but sometimes I felt the urge to kill them and see them buried; but the Spirit said to me: “how do you, my daughter, pray and have bad ideas like these?” 

When the pastor asked us to bless those who curse us and harm us, I refused to do so in my heart, but he continued by saying this is the great test for your life as a Christian. 
That night, arriving home, I entered my room. God told me that He will fill me with peace if I do this. 

I cried a lot then, after more than 15 minutes, I started to forgive them, then bless them and finally love them. Thank you pastor for agreeing to come to Togo. I feel that you came especially for me.” 

After hearing this testimony, Ps Sammy gave her the Father’s blessing and now she is filled with peace.